You’re Not Broken.

You’re just ready to understand your sexuality.

MISTER: Answers to the Questions You’re Afraid to Ask

A candid, science-based, no-BS guide by Dr. Michael Stokes—Certified Sex Therapist & Founder of Mister Health.

Meet the book

Every man wishes existed 10 years ago

Let’s be honest

Most men never got a real sex education.

You learned the basics from porn, locker room talk, or a high school health class that told you more about diseases than desire.

So when sex gets complicated—when you lose your erection, can’t finish, feel disconnected, or start wondering if your fantasies are “normal”—you’re left with shame and zero answers.

That’s where MISTER steps in.

This isn’t a self-help fluff piece or another “alpha male” pep talk.

It’s the truth about men’s sexual health—told with empathy, humor, and real-world experience by a therapist who’s spent over a decade helping men get out of their heads and back into their bodies.

What you’ll learn inside Mister:

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Why you struggle with sex

and how to stop turning it into a performance test

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What your sexual fantasies really mean

and why they’re not weird

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The truth about porn and masturbation

and how to stop turning it into a performance test

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How to talk about sex

without it being awkward

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Desire, rejection, and performance anxiety

and how to navigate each of them

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How to enjoy sex

for connection, not just climax

Dr. Mike takes on everything men secretly Google but rarely talk about—from erections and kinks to porn use, same-sex attraction, and what to do when sex feels like work instead of play.

Why men are calling Mister a game-changer

Who this book is for

The guy who’s tired of second-guessing himself in bed

The man who’s curious about his fantasies, orientation, or desires

The professional who has everything together on paper but feels disconnected behind closed doors

The partner who wants to reignite connection and intimacy—not just frequency

If you’ve ever thought, “Am I normal?” — this book will show you that you are.

And if you’ve ever thought, “I want more out of my sex life,” — this book will show you how.

What makes Mister different?

Dr. Mike blends clinical research with real stories from men like you, breaking down taboos and outdated ideas with warmth and wit.

He introduces frameworks like the MISTER Method and the Autonomous Sexuality Model, giving you tools to:

Get out of your head during sex

Communicate openly without fear

Reconnect with your body and your partner

Build confidence in your sexual identity and values

It’s sex therapy, wisdom, and mentorship

All in one powerful guide

about the author

Dr. Michael Stokes

LPC, AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist

Founder of MisterHealth.com — the leading men’s sexual health and wellness platform.


Known to his clients as Dr. Mike, he’s helped hundreds of men move from anxiety, shame, and confusion into confidence, clarity, and connection.


With a direct, compassionate, and sex-positive approach, he’s changing the way men talk about sex—and helping them reclaim the pleasure they deserve.

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Imagine this instead...

Feeling relaxed and confident before sex

Knowing how to calm your nervous system when anxiety shows up

Being able to feel your body — not just perform with it

Experiencing pleasure instead of pressure

Showing up for yourself and your partner with presence, not panic

This isn’t a fantasy. It’s what happens when you stop treating sex like a performance and start treating it like a practice.

And that’s what the Performance Anxiety Audio Course will teach you.

Yours today for just $27

it's time to

Rethink everything you thought you knew about sex.

If you’re ready to stop worrying, start enjoying, and finally understand how your sexuality actually works — this is your guide.

Grab your copy of MISTER: Answers to the Questions You’re Afraid to Ask today.

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